Every night at eight p.m. my neighbor across the street, a university professor, goes outside and howls.
So does the real estate broker from his backyard, And the owner of a radio station three doors away.
Even my neighbor, the nurse, goes outside to howl.
And yesterday, I did too.
It is the silliest thing I have done in a while. And I feel utterly amused.
Here we are, dressed in our home slack, howling at each other.
I can even hear people in other parts of our neighborhood howling.
The howling lasts just a few minutes. Afterward, we chat a little bit, and in eight minutes or so we go back inside, to whatever we were doing before the howl.
I know that in Italy, Spain, and the Netherlands people went outside at eight p.m. to applaud the nurses, doctors, and other front line people who keep us healthy, safe, and fed.
Here in Hyde Park, Austin, Texas we howl.
Maybe that’s the reason I like it so much. Because it doesn’t make any sense. It doesn’t contribute. It doesn’t help. It is silly, visceral, and we laugh and connect.
And we see each other from a new perspective. No serious talk about the virus, shopping, planting, politics. No updates about work and life. Normal people with regular jobs, doing something silly together.
In a way it reminds me of coaching.
My clients tell me that they value coaching because it helps them to see situations from a different perspective.
To look at their issues with fresh eyes.
To gain a deeper understanding of what is meaningful to them.
And to have space to reflect on priorities and values, beyond the daily rush of things.
You might like the idea.
And you might think that a coach is too expensive. My clients have that consideration too.
This is what Eric tells me afterward:
“It was absolutely worth my money. I feel like it was well-thought-out. The process was awesome. I was encouraged and challenged to do that kind of deep, reflective work. And the outcome of that has been worth it.”
Not only did he leave a job that wasn’t a fit for his aspirations, but he also found a job in which he is earning more with a lot less stress, in less time, and with more satisfaction.
While he had to pay a mortgage, and his wife was not earning any income because of maternity leave.
This was not a result of me being pushy or bully whipping him into shape.
This was the result of him being in a brave space, where he could authentically connect to himself, question his norms and assumptions, and have enough support to make unconventional choices.
You might not need any of that.
You might be good on your own, with family and friends supporting you.
But if you are curious how working with me could help you, you can schedule a free, discovery call with me.
Anyone who signs up for coaching with me will be grandfathered in my current fee of $100 per hour, as long as they coach with me at least once a month.
June 1, I raise my fees to $150 per hour.